Service Schedule

Service
Patty’s Graveside Service will be held at 1:00 PM, Friday, April 23, 2021 at United Cemetery in Tioga, ND. Pastor Mike Burns will officiate.

A luncheon will be held at First Lutheran Church after the committal services.

The Graveside Service will be broadcast, you can view Patty’s service directly on this page.

Due to Covid 19, we ask that everyone adheres to local and state requirements for social distancing.

Fulkerson Stevenson Funeral Home of Tioga have been entrusted with the arrangements.

Patty Berday
July 27, 1959 - March 10, 2021

Residence: Estevan, SK formerly of Tioga, ND

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Patty passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at St. Joseph’s Hospital, Estevan, SK at the age of 61 years. Patty was like a beautiful breath of sunshine to all who were lucky enough to know her. She will be missed by everyone.

Patty and Doug were married in 2011 in the Bahamas.

Patty's love for her children was unconditional. She was so proud of her children and grandchildren. Patty could find any reason to buy her kids or grandchildren a gift.

Patty's true calling came in 2014 when she became the hairdresser for the Tioga Nursing home and Independent residents. She absolutely loved taking care of her ladies as she called them. Patty would always do special things for all her customers.

Patty’s memory will forever be cherished by her loving husband Doug Berday; her three children, Sarah Eide (Salee Scott) of Jasper Indiana, Justin Eide of Minot, ND and Ariel Schroeder (Jordan) of Epping, ND as well as her 3 grandchildren, Ashton Eide of Estevan, SK and Brennan and Olivia Scott of Jasper Indiana. Patty will also be dearly missed by her 3 sisters, Debi Messersmith of Williston, ND, Sandra (Todd) Schefstad of Lignite, ND and Bobbi Jo of Messersmith of Williston, ND.

Patty was predeceased by her parents, Robert and Karen (nee Leholm) Messersmith.

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Duane and Kathy Binde (Williston , ND)
Mar 15, 2021

Deb and Family,
We are so sorry for this tremendous loss. Your sister was a beautifully talented and giving lady. God bless and comfort you with warm loving memories. Prayers and hugs, Bindes

DEBI MESSERSMITH (WILLISTON, ND)
Mar 16, 2021

PATTY WAS THE BEST SISTER/BEST FRIEND EVER. I WILL MISS HER EVERY SINGLE DAY. I KNOW THAT SHE IS WITH MOM AND DAD BUT I STILL MISS HER TERRIBLY AND WILL UNTIL I CAN JOIN THEM WHEN MY TIME COMES.

Arthur L Olson (Bismarck, North Dakota)
Mar 17, 2021

Our Condolences to the Family & Friends of Patty . Throughout Patty's life time . Patty was a " Ray of Sunshine." Sunshine we all will miss . Sincerely Art & Val Olson Bismarck

Debbie Wilcox (Minot)
Mar 17, 2021

Deepest sympathy to Patty’s family, she was always such a happy positive friend. Sorry for your loss, keep her memories close to you. Hugs Debi

Carrie (Williston , ND)
Mar 18, 2021

Deb and Family,
I cannot think of one time that Patty came to visit and didn’t have the biggest smile on her face. Patty was extremely giving, a very talented artist and had the brightest soul. All my LOVE, Carrie.

Lowell D Pederson (SPOKANE, WA)
Mar 18, 2021

I'm really sorry to hear about this. As many have commented, I too remember her most for her shining & bubbly personality at THS. May God provide comfort to you sisters as you celebrate & honor her life.

Wayde & Joann Nelson (Tioga , ND)
Mar 22, 2021

Patty’s Family: We are saddened by the loss of our dear cousin. She was such a joy to talk to and she always had a smile when she greeted us. She will be missed. We send our love and prayers.
Joann & Wayde Nelson
Lisa & Bobby Beauchamp

Janet cron (Flaxton, ND)
Apr 16, 2021

I was so sad to see this news. I had gone to Patty when she had a salon in Portal and Flaxton. She was such a wonderful gal. My condolences to her family as you adjust to this . Hugs.

melanie earl (north portal, saskatchewan)
Apr 22, 2021

Patty was my best friend the most part of 30 years, I can not imagine a life without her to call & laugh with when ever we have news. We worked together & had fun together, and she was so MUCH fun! She was generous to a fault, creative, talented and sweet. Gone far too soon! I love you girl!

Nadine Sandberg (Lignite, ND)
Apr 23, 2021

My very deepest sympathy to Patti’s family and friends. That was a beautiful service, for a beautiful lady. She was always so kind to me. I pray you will all get God’s grace and peace to help you deal with your loss.
She will be missed. Love, Nadine

Brenda Benth (Williston, ND)
Apr 23, 2021

Debi,
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
So Sorry for your loss.

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